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Jerod"Jerry" Pacilli

Wednesday, March 29th, 1939 - Thursday, April 2nd, 2020
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Jerry Pacilli passed away on April 2, 2020 at home, next to his loving wife, Carol Olchowy Pacilli. He was 81 years old.
He was born in Kingston, NY on March 29, 1939 to Ann Rosmilso Pacilli Ellison and Frank Pacilli. He grew up in Beacon, NY. An Eagle Scout, he was very involved with Boy Scout Troop 95 Fishkill as an adult. He graduated from Beacon High School. He then served for four years with the U.S. Air Force. After his honorable discharge, he graduated from Marist College with a Bachelor’s Degree in Business.
Jerry spent his entire working career with IBM starting in the assembly line, working his way into management where he retired from their procurement division. He was a man of the world who built his own house, camped, and traveled. He also enjoyed his retirement with his stock club and his Monday morning coffee group. He was a life member of the Hughsonville Fire Department.
He is predeceased by Marc Pacilli (his son), and Jerry’s brother, Frank “Chubby” Pacilli. He leaves behind his wife Carol, his sister, Janet Pacilli Mitchell and her husband Bill. Children: Marcie Pacilli Moline and her husband Mark of Winthrop Massachusetts, Andrew Pacilli and his wife Michelle Purington Pacilli of Hopkinton, New Hampshire. Grandchildren: Rhiannon and Astrid Moline and Penelope Pacilli.
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Due to the pandemic, there will not be a funeral mass. A memorial mass will be arranged at a later date. Friends and family are asked to join in watching the Palm Sunday Mass at StJohnsWinthrop.org at 8 a.m. where he will be remembered. A private burial will take place on Monday at the Fishkill Cemetery.
The family would like to extend a personal thanks to Vanessa Coughlin, Colleen Peterson, Lee Patenaude, Javier Ribe and the care team of Hudson Valley Hospice for taking care of Jerry.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the Hughsonville Fire Department, P.O. Box 545, Hughsonville, NY 12537 or to Hudson Valley Hospice Foundation, 374 Violet Avenue, Poughkeepsie, NY 12601.
Arrangements are in charge of the Delehanty Funeral Home. To send a condolence, visit www.delehantyfuneral.com
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    Fishkill Rural Cemetery
    Route 9
    FISHKILL, NY 12524
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Pat Kirkup

Posted at 11:07am
I worked with Jerry so many years ago in IBM East Fishkill. He was a kind, thoughtful man who was a role model. Prayers for his family at this great loss.

Melanie Hoffman

Posted at 11:33am
We are so sorry to hear of the passing of Jerry. We are praying for your family during this difficult time. With sympathy,
Olga Janicijevic and Melanie (Janicijevic) Hoffman

Jean Doneit

Posted at 01:26pm
Dear Carol and family,
My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. I was so sorry to read of Jerry’s passing. I remember what a wonderful person he was back during our days of teaching. The years have gone by too quickly but memories never fade. I know you have many beautiful memories to sustain you. There are many people who care. I’m thinking of you with love and with my deepest sympathy.
Jean Doneit

Carole DiNonno

Posted at 11:25am
To Carol and Family, it was with great sadness that I read of Jerry's passing. Memories of the past filled my mind remembering shared past events. Picnics and parties at your house as the children grew. Please know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers as you go through this difficult time.

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